Cartwheels in a Sari: A Memoir of Growing Up Cult Jayanti Tamm

Tamm"s parents met in the Manhattan apartment of the guru Sri Chinmoy and quickly married each other at his insistence; when they violated his commandment not to have sex with each other, however, he regrouped by declaring that their daughter, Tamm, would become his greatest disciple. The cult leader was a skilled manipulator, and Tamm"s descriptions of her internalization of his predation, constantly blaming herself for not feeling worshipful enough, are wrenching. The outward pressures were equally difficult: she was forbidden a college education and sent abroad when she was caught violating the cultwide ban on dating—and the first time she was banished from the group, she begged for readmittance. Tamm, now in her late 30s and a professor at Ocean County College in New Jersey, is unsparing in her account of the psychological damage Sri Chinmoy inflicted on her and her family, from her parent"s loveless marriage to her half-brother"s gleeful acceptance of the role of the guru"s enforcer. She reveals the difficulties in shaking off the guru"s influence—under which she had spent literally her entire life before her final expulsion—and though readers might wish to hear more about how she eventually regained her identity, the harrowing details of her story create a sense of emotional devastation that will linger. Это и многое другое вы найдете в книге Cartwheels in a Sari: A Memoir of Growing Up Cult (Jayanti Tamm)