How many times have you heard a smart, beautiful, successful woman say, ""He's not what I want, but he has potential,"" or ""I can change him""? How many times have you said those words yourself? Well, it is time to stop! Stop fooling yourself! Stop settling and hoping it will get better, because It Is What It Is: Unless You Do Something Different! It Is What It Is is a self-help/how-to guide to help women acquire, nurture, and sustain healthy, long-term relationships. It offers insight into relationship dynamics from a psychological/clinical perspective and gives practical step-by-step advice and instruction for changing how one thinks, which will change how one feels and ultimately, acts in their relationships; all in an easy to understand, and sometimes humorous fashion. Это и многое другое вы найдете в книге What Not to Say to Someone Not Expecting (Lisa a. Coleman)